WHY? Because I'm Dominant and I can!

I am not a Sadist and not all Domme's are, I can be Sadistic, I can be evil, I can be mean, I can be a total bitch BUT I don't like seriously marking or damaging My toys when playing, punishment for something that displeases Me is a different story. I can and will make sure you know the difference and yes you will hate what punishments are.
I will take you to the edge and hold you there breathless and needing for hours before I let you fly.
Why? Because I can and it pleases Me to do so and it arouses My passion greatly.

I will not hear the word NO from My hubby-sub or any other sub unless they have a damn good reason and they better let Me know in a respectful tone of voice. If they can't speak up intelligently then I don't want to hear it, if they can't speak and act with self discipline and self confidence then they are worthless to Me, if they can't show respect in their own worth then they're no good to Me, if they don't have it in them to look Me in the eye and say Mistress you're wrong and back up that statement with facts then they have no place in My life.
Why? Because if you have no pride in yourself you'll have none in being Mine.

There is more to this Lifestyle then pain, there's more in this Lifestyle then breaking someone, there is more to serving Me then being able to take punishment silently, it's not the number of lashes or paddle strokes you can take, it's not the amount of punishment your body can take, it's the way your body responds to Me and My touch that matters. The worst possible thing that you could do when serving Me is hold back any part of yourself and what you're feeling, that includes pleasure as well as pain and any sounds or responses you feel when I'm playing.
Why? Because I want to hear it and see it.

I love having a man, especially a strong successful man, helpless bound before Me waiting on My pleasure. My favorite bonds are not leather or steel, it's not rope or wire, it's toilet paper wrapped around their wrists and ankles, and they better not tear it or I stop whatever I'm doing and walk away.
Why? Because I can and it pleases Me when My will and your desire to please Me is the only thing holding you in place.

I'm a Sensualist and as such I want to know your reaction to every sensation I'm giving you, if I'm using a flogger or paddle know that it pleases Me to see your skin turn a nice rosy red. If I see you flinching away from Me then I'll switch to something else, maybe some fur rubbed over your skin to bring you down a little and let the sting die down before I go to another toy and take you higher. Maybe I'll use some sandpaper across your buttocks or chest, maybe a little (or a lot) hot wax dripped from various heights over your body, maybe a cold sharp blade to peel it off so you'd better be still.
Why? Because I like it and feel like doing it.

A Sadist enjoys seeing you in pain and will do whatever they can to get the reaction they want from you, they love the marks you take for Them, They love to hear your tears or groans or cries that you can't hold back when it hurts.
A sensualist loves the moans and whimpers, the begging and pleading, the puppy dog eyes looking up with devotion while They work on you. I will tease and torment for hours until all you know is My hands on your body, My voice in your ears, My breath on your body, My will and skill lifting you higher then easing you down then back up higher and down again and again until you fly free above your physical self.
Why? Because it's tremendously powerful to have that much control over another person.

I may decide to use a cane, oh how I love the stripes they make with so little effort and they do make nice patterns on your skin when I want them to. A cane to some is a hard limit, it can leave deep bruises or cut the skin and it certainly can leave marks that last a week or more should I care to do so. If I choose to use it on your face do not pull away but trust me that I won't bruise you.
Why? Because I like My marks to be Mine and not shared with anyone.

I may have you blindfolded waiting for My touch somewhere, anywhere on your body, you may feel the heat of my body as I circle you deciding what and where I'm going to do next. That touch may be as light and fleeting as a snow flake falling against your cheek or as hard as a paddle breaking on your ass, either way by the time I'm finished you'll be begging for it if you're capable of thought or speech by the time I'm done satisfying My desires.

Why? Because that's how I want you.. Breathless and needing, wanting Me and only Me to let you fly.