Why is there a shortage of FemDom's

I belong to several groups for discussions, most of them are FemDom or D/s and one thing that comes up repeatedly is the lack of Mistresses or Domina's. Various numbers are thrown out by people, that there's anywhere from 10 to 100 submissive's to each non pro Domina. I have no idea if those numbers are right or not, I know I get a ton of IM's from men who think I'm there waiting to play with them.

Their main complaint is all they can find online are either Pro Domme's or "money" Domme's. The difference being that a Pro will schedule time for them to have a session taking care of their fetish needs, a "money" Domme may not have any information about the lifestyle at all but if you send them money or get them something from their wish list they'll fake it.

"Real" Domina's don't advertize online, they don't have to. All they need do is pop into a chat room somewhere and they're inundated with horny sub's who are looking for someone to own them for a few hours or forever.

So if they're not advertizing online where are they? They're at local munch meetings or play parties, they're online talking to their own sub's and others in chat rooms, they're putting their thoughts in blogs. They're not there sitting by the computer waiting for some horny toad to pop up and role play a fantasy out for them.

So instead of looking online for them and getting let down, get off your lazy hind end and go out to functions and lifestyle events, get to know real people in the real world and not just someone playing dress up on the computer.